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Parents often give children everything they ask for and do what they like. Is it good for children? What are the consequences when they grow us?

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Many parents prefer to give fierce love to their children; that is an unquestioning act to give them all they want, even let their child reign over these men and women. But giving kids too many possessions, too many privileges, and too many opportunities can actually constitute neglect, and it can have lifelong consequences for many children.

Let’s explain this phenomenon. People know that one of the aspects of children's rights is that every baby has the right to be demanded, and the parents have an obligation to make sure this right is met. It has made the assumption that children are feeble individuals, so they need adults’ care. So, in general, this is the correct value. However, many parents and even children have misinterpreted the spirit of the right. These adult carers bear in mind the idea that mom and dad are supposed to give their son and daughter whatever they require, including physical and moral ones. It’s called overindulge, with concrete examples such as buying lots of holiday gifts, giving kids too much freedom and too little discipline, and doing too much for their children instead of letting them learn the skills they need to gain independence. There is terminology for this kind of parents: “permissive parents” or “helicopter parents”. They are responsible for giving their kids a faulty outlook on life. 

Sometimes parents are just ill-equipped and unprepared to deal with behaviour problems. They don’t know how to respond to temper tantrums and defiance. So to make life easier in the short term, they go to great lengths to avoid disciplining their children. Moreover, because many parents suffered from an unfortunate childhood with tough experiences, they simply may want to make sure their child does not “go without.”

The children brought up by overindulging families tend to take from being selfish individuals with a self-centred temper. Kids in this model always think of themselves as God's gifts for humankind, and they are used to the "fact" that it is evident truth to be received and satisfied. Whenever their compromise isn't met, these sordid boys and girls are likely to hold negative attitudes and behaviours until the adults have to calm them by humour their children.   

Now, that shattering endearment could lead to terrible results for helicopter parents’ children from both present and future phases of life. Because children are not prepared to make good decisions for themselves, they need parents to intervene at times and set rules as a consequence. Due to the overinterpretation of indulging parents, a false reality for the child going forward in life is set up. They expect that they will always have every need and want to be met without any effort. Additionally, children who are praised too often for minor achievements feel like they deserve praise for very little effort. This results in adults who put in minimal effort and complain when they don’t get the results they want. They may blame others for their problems, despite putting in the needed energy to solve their problems. Besides that, children of indulgent parents also have a hard time holding onto money once they get it. Their impulsiveness makes them prone to spending money as soon as they have any. This sets them up for future financial difficulties.

These consequences are not just psychological either. Children of indulgent parents are more likely to have a slew of health problems because the parents do not enforce hygiene or healthy habits. 

It's an undeniable fact that all bearers want to give all the best to their little people. The indulgence can act as a vehicle to carry parents' affection to their children. However, the border between legitimate and unthinking is very small. Remember: spare the robe, spoil the child.

 
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Nowadays, an increasing number of parents are concerned about the way they raise their children. It seems to be an increasingly widespread problem that they give children everything they ask for and do what they like. It is clear that this method is harmful to children's lives. This could lead to various consequences when they grow up.

There are several reasons why overindulgence is not good for children. First, over-caring children could lead them to become more reliant on parents for nearly everything, even basic tasks in their lives. My six-year-old niece is a good case in point. Although she is mature enough to feed herself, she still relies on her parents to do those little things. Moreover, children who are given everything by their parents are more likely to become greedy in adulthood. In spite of having many toys, these children always pester their parents for the latest version of a toy car or a logo set.

As a result, this method has a negative impact on children's lives. Obviously, children who are spoilt often have bad spending habits when growing older. They might not understand the value of hard work or the importance of good money management skills, so they usually buy whatever they like, regardless of whether or not the item is necessary. In addition, overindulged children have a tendency to depend on other people. When they encounter problems in their workplace, instead of trying every possible effort to deal with these issues, they tend to depend on the help of their colleagues.

To summarize,overindulgence is detrimental to children's habits and behaviour. This could cause a number of adverse consequences, ranging from bad habits to reliant individuals in adulthood. Therefore, parents should apply alternative methods to educate them more effectively

 

 

 

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